If you want to keep your dignity, there are eight specific things you should never share with anyone.

 Keep Your Dignity Intact: Discover the 8 Critical Secrets You Should Never Share

 You can tell someone is receptive to criticism if they reveal all of their secrets. You can tell someone is private if they don't say anything. Human interaction is that. Let's face it, though; things aren't always so clear-cut. Sharing requires a careful balance. If you reveal too little, you come across as enigmatic or, worse, distant; if you reveal too much, you jeopardize your dignity.

 I'm here to impart some advice that I've learned the hard way. If you respect your dignity, you should never share these eight things. Believe me, it's not as clear-cut as you may believe.

 1)Your own secrets:

 Nowadays, everyone has secrets. That is a universal truth. They are the small (or not-so-small) things we keep to ourselves, deep within our hearts. They could be humiliating, unpleasant, or just too private to disclose. But here's the thing: once you release them into the world, you can't get them back. They're out there for all to see and evaluate.

 So, if you want to preserve your dignity, keep your secrets to yourself. They are termed 'personal' for a reason. Yes, sharing may be therapeutic. Remember, not everyone deserves to know your darkest secrets. And that's OK. Because your dignity is more valuable than temporary ease.

 2)In the past, we've all made errors: 

Trust me, I've made plenty of mistakes in the past. Allow me to take you back to my college days. I once made the mistake of publicly posting an embarrassing incident from my high school days. It seemed like an innocuous story about a disastrously botched attempt to ask someone out.

 It elicited chuckles, certainly, but it also painted a picture of me that I couldn't get rid of for the remainder of my college career. I became 'that guy'—the one who couldn't even ask someone out properly. Since then, I've come to realize that certain previous errors are better left unspoken. They may be humorous or painful, but they are a part of your past. There is no need to display your dirty laundry for all to see. Your previous faults do not define you, and discussing them will not improve your dignity.

 So take it from me: certain stories are better kept to ourselves.

 3) Financial information: 

Money is a hard business. In American society, discussing personal money is typically considered taboo. It's a private subject, held close to the chest and not spoken of in public. This is more than simply a social standard; it's a practical way to minimize future disputes or misunderstandings.

 Sharing your salary, debts, or savings account balance will not get you any medals. Instead, it may draw unwelcome attention or make people uncomfortable. It may even lead to someone taking advantage of you. So, keep your financial information to yourself. It's important to safeguard not only your dignity but also your peace of mind.

 4) Unpleasant thoughts about others: 

We all have our views and feelings about other people. It's part of being human. But here’s a helpful tip: just because you think of something doesn't mean you have to say it. Especially when it comes to bad thoughts about other people.

 When you share these thoughts, it doesn't just make the person you're talking about look bad – it also makes you look bad. It makes you appear mean-spirited and critical, and nobody wants to be perceived that way.

So, the next time you want to complain or talk about someone behind their back, think about what might happen because of it. What you say matters. Use them carefully if you want to maintain your respect.

 5) Relationship problems:

 I've experienced that. The highs and lows of a relationship can be a lot to handle, and it’s normal to want to talk about what you're going through with others. Here's what I've learned: discussing your relationship problems can lead to significant trouble.

 When I discussed my relationship problems with others, I often received unwanted advice and judgments. Some people even started to view my partner in a negative light. Additionally, even after my partner and I had repaired our relationship, people still viewed us negatively. It was a big mess. From what I've seen, keep your relationship problems private between you and your partner. It's better for your health, and it helps you keep your self-respect.

 6) Your kind actions: 

Doing nice things is great. It demonstrates caring, kindness, and a sense of duty to help others. But here's the catch: When you start telling others about your good deeds, they stop being special. It seems like you're helping them to get noticed instead of really wanting to be kind.

Telling everyone about all the nice things you've done can make it seem like you're trying to show off. It can make people doubt your reasons and lower your respect. Do good things because they are the right choice, not just to get praise from others. Keep your good actions private, just between you and your own feelings. That's where they matter the most.

 7) Health problems: 

Health is a private matter, and while it's important to talk to doctors, you don't need to tell everyone everything about it. You may be facing a personal and confidential health issue. Discussing it openly may feel liberating for some people, but for others, it can feel like an intrusion into their personal lives.

Also, talking about health problems can sometimes lead to unwanted advice or negative judgment, depending on what the issue is. If you don't feel comfortable or think it's important, keep your health problems to yourself. You have the right to keep your personal life private, and doing so can help you feel respected.

 8) Family problems: 

Every family has its troubles. Discussing personal problems in public can lead to people losing respect for you and your family. These are things that are better discussed within the family or with a professional if necessary. Sharing them with others won't fix the problem, but it could hurt your self-respect. So, keep your family issues to yourself. It's the right thing to do.

 Final thoughts: 

If you’ve read this far, I hope you understand that being dignified doesn't mean keeping everything inside. It's about determining what to share and what to keep private.

 It's a delicate balancing act, akin to a dance, between being open and protecting yourself. It takes practice and making mistakes to improve. I've had a lot of experiences, and now I hope you can avoid some of the same pitfalls. Remember, dignity isn't only about how other people see you; it's also about how you see yourself. It's important to recognize your value and stand by it.

 As you go through all the talks and relationships in your life, remember these important things. You are the owner of your stories, your experiences, and your secrets. You can choose what to share and what to keep to yourself.

By doing this, you keep both your self-respect and your true self. There’s nothing more respectable than being true to yourself. Please share your valuable comments.